@naledimashishi Tbh, if I can avoid spanking my kids, I will. Mostly because I don't think I'd be as wise to know when and how to not spare the rod with my own kids because I do think it takes a special person to do it right.
I'll just buy them a lot of things that I can threaten to take away🤷🏽♀️
@naledimashishi But that's what I mean regarding good parenting. Only an awful person and human being would think it's OK to spank a 3 year old. My whole point was that my mom only spanked me when I could comprehend how my own actions led to the consequences.
@naledimashishi Good parenting matters and that involves knowing when you have kids with hard heads like me, more sensitive kids like my little sister and everything in between.
@naledimashishi My little sister on the otherhand, completely breaks apart when she's sent to her room so that works for her.
The big difference was that I was warned numerous times before any beating and sat down after where my mom would explain what I'd done wrong and end off with a hug.
Hi ER Doc here,
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last monday, Uyinene.
this monday, Natasha.
so many in between. so many before. so many to come.
femicide doesn’t magically stop within a week. stay angry. keep fighting.
I really hope the @Springboks beat New Zealand in our WC Opener ... it’s a huge rivalry! I’d rather lose to anyone else ... maybe even England ... than New Zealand ... it’s bigger than just Rugby! 🙃🙂
Many of your message brought me to tears as you shared your personal stories. Many inspired me, and reminded me of where true courage and strength lies. To all the men, let’s be better! Let us be the men our mothers dreamed we would be. From a man, trying to be better ❤