@thederbyapex I think of this as a symptom of atrophied empathy muscles within a lot of spaces. Ppl repeat their stories or say them louder until they feel heard. We can give each other such relief by doing good listening/accompaniment! Esp impactful when it's IRL.
@rrgderby@thederbyapex Yes! I usually recommend transformative mediation. Training can be expensive, best bet is often a community based org vs law/judicial based. May not be classic mediation, but general conflict res/transformation. *Sometimes* nvc training is good for this, lots of caveats here