@petforests but dude im genuinely sorry to hear you had that experience bc its horrible to be objectified like that, im glad you’re not in that situation anymore
@petforests In my eyes you should be falling in love with a person and their personality, aspirations, etc rather than trying to select someone based on a label, personally i couldnt just be with any butch, i’m in love with my bf bc of who he is not bc of a word
@HYPERPOP_HYPER Especially pens/markers bc you cant erase! I think it helps to make it feel like youre drawing for fun and not a perfect outcome because you eliminate the option entirely
@HYPERPOP_HYPER Ive found that traditional art helps a lot… i think when you remove the possibility of an undo button and endless cleanup you’re stuck with whatever you do, and it helps ease the expectations