One way to build up confidence is by keeping promises you make to yourself. If you always let yourself down, you’ll start feeling like there’s nothing stable to depend on internally. Confidence boils down to having trust in your own abilities. That’s the antidote to insecurity.
i think some people focus a bit too much on looking good on paper and forget about being an enjoyable person that someone would actually want to be around lol
my friends taught me that “checking on your friends” is not enough. depression is a beast and it can trickle into every crevice of your life. sometimes your friends need you to come clean their house or buy groceries & stock their kitchen or pick up their kids or bring food over.
i don’t really wanna see any of the “you never know what people are going through” discourse today because, in all honesty, y’all aren’t any kinder when you do.
No more relationships built on the rush of infatuation. I seek to only cultivate a deep, intentional, unrushed love. Without obsession.
Self reminder to clear/cleanse the heart, so that it knows exactly what it desires - and isn’t confusing someone else’s feelings for it’s own.