Some of y'all are really bad people, bad friends, bad family. Please stop acting and pretending like you were the good person in bad situations. You weren't & you know you weren't. Some of y'all owe a lot of people apologies, even if it doesn't include reconnecting.
unfortunately, i thought the more i stayed, u would realize how i wanted us to work so bad but that just increased your ego and made it easier for you to disrespect me
I've seen busy men make time. I've seen bad communicators communicate well. I've seen bad texters respond quickly & write paragraphs for their girl. I've seen men who "aren't ready for a relationship" get ready in two conversations. The truth is "IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD"
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them. Green flag energy >>
As a friend, I'm never tired of your life. I hate when my friends say, "I don't want to keep bothering you with the same issue." If it weighs on your chest every day, SPILL. Call me, text me, anytime, any day. I'm here.
Look at this bible verse, “I waited patiently for the Lord to help me, and he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along.” - Psalms 40:1-2