I will never understand why ex friends get so bitter when you remove yourself from their toxic circles. They literally make it clear they don’t like you then get mad at you for leaving. Insane.
I cut friends off for not being as good of a friend to me as I was to them. So the next time, you fix your mouth to say "If we was real friends we wouldn't of fell out over that" Remember that, I would've never put you in a situation to make y'all feel how I felt. I'm good to all my friends but I know when the energy is not returned... I'm a good friend, not a stupid friend. Let that sink in.
Call me immature but I do not like a neutral friend especially if you know the other person did something hurtful or malicious. You will be cut off. Being neutral in moments when you know someone is dead wrong is problematic as hell. A friend to all is a friend to none 🙃
Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
I’ll never respect somebody who knew I was already going through a lot… & still did me wrong. You knew what I was dealing with. You knew what I was tryna heal from. & instead of being there, you played in my face and made it worse. That’s the part I’ll never forget. Like dang… what if I ain’t have nobody else? What if you were the only one I could count on? & that’s exactly why I don’t put my trust in nobody.
If you want to base my whole personality on how I behave after being disrespected, that’s on you. Just know you’re not witnessing my character, you’re witnessing my boundaries. You’re not seeing who i truly am, you’re seeing who i become when I’m forced to protect myself.
I’ve walked away from people simply because they weren’t showing up for me the way I showed up for them. So before you say “real friends wouldn’t fall out over that” understand something… I would’ve never put you in a position to feel how ppl had me feeling.
Respectfully, I do not go above and beyond for people like i use to anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
nothing ends a friendship quicker for me than seeing someone show up for everyone else in ways they never show up for me. like you have the capacity.. just not for me? yeah, i’ll pass.