“People get used to anything. The less you think about your oppression, the more your tolerance for it grows. After a while, people just think oppression is the normal state of things. But to become free, you have to be acutely aware of being a slave.” -Assata Shakur
Black Americans doing a nation wide boycott of Asian-owned businesses in the name of this verdict would be effective. They capitalize off our needs and wants: convenience stores, corner stores, beauty supply, nail salons, etc. They depend on heavily on our dollar. Money speaks.
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.