One thing people get wrong about me is thinking because I don’t react immediately, I don’t notice. Oh, I notice EVERYTHING. I just don’t believe every situation deserves an argument. Sometimes I let people keep talking. I let them keep lying. I let them keep pretending… because eventually everybody tells on themselves. By the time they think they got away with it, I’ve already accepted who they are and started moving accordingly. Silence don’t always mean weakness… sometimes it means your access is quietly being revoked.
Stop JUDGING fathers WHO haven’t SEEN their KIDS. A LOT of THEM are GOOD men WHO actually WANT to be ACTIVE dads BUT had CHILDREN with THE WRONG WOMAN. Everybody QUICK to BLAME the FATHER, but some MEN really BE getting BLOCKED, ALIENATED, DRAGGED THROUGH COURT, or PUSHED AWAY by BITTER SITUATIONS behind the SCENES. MISERABLE mother's WEAPONIZE the CHILDREN out of HURT, CONTROL or REVENGE… then the WORLD LABELS the FATHER a “DEADBEAT ” WITHOUT even KNOWING the FULL STORY. A man can LOVE his KIDS DEEPLY and STILL be FIGHTING just to BE in THEIR LIFE.
yk what's really attractive?? a secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, a man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with u, makes u feel safe, a man who still has the same level of respect and love during bad terms...Top tier.