punya perasaan benci sama bapak tuh gampang bgt. but no matter how hard you try, it will be very difficult for you to hate your own mom. tiap kali adu argumen sama mama pasti ujung nya gw ga tega dan pikiran "hidup dia susah krn society & bapak gw" ate my brain straight away
When all your attempts to love and be loved end up confirming your deepest fears and insecurities about yourself as well as dredging up childhood traumas and every mean thing your parents did/said to you
“treat them like rational creatures” remains one of the most important feminist demands. stop romanticizing women as delicate little beings who need to be managed, protected and spoken for. being adored as an object is not the same thing as being respected as a person.
As a caregiver of schizophrenic parent, thank you for everyone's kindness in lending a hand in this case. I'll be so happy to have so many help in the past, but indeed the situation of such family is very very complex. So I hope everyone is willing to understand more 💖
i trust her friends and im glad shes fine. but please dont let this deter you from helping future victims because human trafficking and incest is an extremely serious thing and it happens.
kalo fake pun, jgn lupakan SS discord dimana si KS ini pura2 jadi ibunya & nyuruh temen2nya ngelakuin SH
temen2 discordnya jg harus diinvestigasi. anak seumur dia sangat rawan terpengaruh sama apa yg dia konsumsi
gak cuma keluarganya yg dikasih edukasi, KS juga harus diberi paham
@kuning_ceplok agree. harusnya mental modelnya:
trust the victim first
>if it’s true, then we push it ke ranah hukum
>but if it all turns out to be fake/fabricated, be glad that the victim is actually safe from it, and now we focus on keeping them safe from harming themself and other people.
Gw gak suka aftermath kasus K.S. ini, orang indonnya malah non verbatim "lu semua bodo jir mau aja digoblokin sama cerita boongan bocah" daripada yang lebih penting kyk focus on ybs held the accountability for fabricating such allegations, investigasi akar masalahnya di mana etc
KS has spoken up, but I wish the police had given them space to share their testimony alone. It's important that we follow all updates closely while still remaining vigilant in case KS is being forced to testify. For now, I'm at the very least glad KS is not in immediate danger.
whether or not you believe either side of KS' case, please be mindful of what you're saying about/to the little sister. that's an even younger child who shouldn't have been the mediator between their family vs the internet. pressuring another child is not how you combat abuse.
ive been helping for a similar ks case back then in 2023, all you guys care was about WHOS THE PERPETRATOR to satisfy your ego
it was very exhausting bcs you guys considered the case was fake bcs the victim didnt want to disclose whos the perpetrator lol
this is why in every situation like this we SHOULD be in the victim side first and foremost
indeed ks case is fucked up, but its shady considering their surroundings, and sadly you guys are more concerned about the other thing except ks themselves