One of the hardest lessons this year has been allowing people to continue thinking what they think about me & stop trying to show anyone the truth.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
please be kind. don’t be the reason someone didn't eat today. don’t be the reason someone hates their body. don’t be the reason why someone doesn’t join in on a conversation. don’t be the reason why someone hates themselves. trust me, it sticks with them forever
I absolutely HATE the idea of ‘well someone else has it worse’ like NO.
Your pain and trauma are completely valid despite what someone else went through..