Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
I’ve been in Jos for like 5 days now and I have a lot to say.
Firstly, I never knew a people could be this nice and kind and respectful.
I almost felt sick because I never knew people could still be like that.
Lagos has fried my brain. People call you Sir while offering every service to you.
From the suya guy to the super market attendant to the local restaurant to every single person.
I’ve never seen this before in my life. In Lagos, the way I know the food in a restaurant would be good is if the woman is rude.
I never trust the food of a polite food seller in Lagos.
But I’m here where everyone treats you with respect.
Then things are cheaper. The uber that will normally cost 10 million naira here in Lagos is 2,500 here.
I’ve never seen life lived like this before. I see clear road everywhere.
I’m not scared of holding my phone carelessly.
Hotel is cheap with free WiFi. Omo. Jos na place.
This man struck gold
The Rule of Thumb with Women and Relationships
Any woman that is not actively trying to help you reduce spendings or save money is not the one for you
Know this and know peace
Many short sighted atheists, saying prayers don’t work.
Prayer worked other years but stopped working in 2026?
Don’t worry, just pray nothing takes you back to zero. thats when you will know you need prayers to bounce back.
PATTERN RETRIEVAL, a new project by me.
94 pixellated ASCII characters.
Each one a memory under pressure.
Stored in a Hopfield network. Shattered into noise. And then recalled.
More below 👇
Be so disciplined
So patient
Such a hard worker
That the universe has no choice but to bend to your sheer will and determination
Everything I mentioned is within your control
Control it and the universe tends to be very giving
God will provide
Trust that