Usually when someone loves their solitude and peace a bit too much, it’s because their nervous system has been through a lot. They’ve been burnt out, overworked, experienced grief, grew up in chaos, etc. Craving peace is also how your nervous system says it still needs healing
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
Get you a partner that doesn’t mind hurting people's feelings when it comes to you. imma say it again. GET YOU A PARTNER THAT DOESN'T MIND HURTING PEOPLE'S FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU.
I don’t know what any of my exes are doing. I don’t know what any of my former friends are doing. and you’re not supposed to! there was a time when you just never saw a person again. I’m nostalgic for those times. disappear like a ghost! woooo!
even platonically, i love intensely. intimacy is not reserved for romance. i will always respect peoples boundaries, but i think a lot of people are taken back because they've never been loved for the sake of being loved. i don't want anything. i just really love my friends
this is a woman who knows she won't get yelled at for closing his laptop, won't be scolded for interrupting him, won't be ignored, her emotions are prioritized, she feels safe, cared for, loved, and he's treated her like this since the beginning
it takes two to have this. you don't just "marry" a romantic woman, you show her how much you love her every single day and this dynamic will last forever. otherwise you lose her