i don't wanna "win" the argument or feel "right". that's not the point nor my objective. i wanna feel like we've come to an understanding on the issue at hand. i want both of us to walk away feeling heard and understood. it's not a competition
Having a clean and organized home is so healthy and therapeutic for me. I literally feel so much better mentally, physically and emotionally when everything around me is organized.
no woman wants to be mad all the time or be called toxic. y’all dudes have to realize that women react off the way you move. but stop being stuck in your ways! pointing out her every flaw! when you haven’t took a look in the mirror at yourself
Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going
As a parent I would NEVERRRR tell my kids "I'm not coming to get you, or "find your own way home"!!! Idc rain, snow, hail, 2pm or 2am 🗣️🗣️ I'm coming for mine ALWAYSSSSSS!!!
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
it's never easy for a good woman to walk away; especially after she's invested so much of herself into making it work. just know, that by the time she finally decides to leave, she's given you countless chances and debated the idea, over and over in her head, at least 1000 times
I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. You just saw the scenario differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
I'm not "talking sht" about you if I'm telling people about things you have LITERALLY DONE TO ME!!! I'm allowed to express my feelings. If your actions have made you look bad, that's on you!!!
I’m officially at the age I don’t wanna be around people who aren’t self aware.
continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.