Sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide, ‘This is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,’ and stand on it, whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
my toxic trait is detachment. i grew up distant so it’s easy for me to lose interest and cut ties. i could miss the shit out of you but never talk to or speak on you again
nothing is ever the same the second time around, whether it’s friendships, relationships, once something breaks it changes things. even with apologies , moving forward is never as natural as it was before. you see things differently & trust differently.
Nothing ruins a relationship faster than watching your partner show up for everyone else in ways they never show up for you. It proves they have the capacity but not the desire to do it for you.