actually it’s weak-minded not to have the mental capacity to understand the complexity of human relationships. when your relationships are founded on friendship and actually Liking the person you’re with rather than superficial sexual attraction, you are able to maintain a friendship after seeing that things are incompatible between you romantically. of course, some people need space to process before proceeding to the friendship stage (i did), but it’s a shame to throw away a connection with someone who you genuinely just like as an individual