i’ve noticed people that are obSESSED w morality policing others tend to be the absolute worst judgemental people ever who have much shittier morals and characters than the people they try to control
at my big age i really don’t think i can date without intention. one day ill be cool and the next im cutting you off because what i really want is someone who’s all the locked in and ready to settle down. nothing else gone work, idc how much i like you
Everything you say behind a person’s back eventually finds its way back to them. The lies, the sneaky jabs, and the unnecessary comments. Engaging in that kind of behavior shows very low character and says far more about you than anyone else. Let this be the last time.
Muitos homens dizem que querem uma mulher “leve” e carinhosa, mas esquecem que isso nasce quando ela se sente segura, amada e respeitada. Ninguém continua sendo doce depois de viver um inferno emocional. A forma como você trata alguém muda quem essa pessoa consegue ser.
i will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. this can be friends family, whoever. once you show me who you are, i can’t unsee it.
Your PARTNER is the one who’ll be beside you when your parents pass. Who’ll hold your hand through childbirth. Who might have to help bathe you when you’re too weak to stand. This isn’t just about butterflies or cute date nights. It’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP, in grief, in chaos, in uncertainty. That’s why I don’t believe love ALONE is enough. It takes commitment, emotional maturity, and the strength to get through life’s hardest moments. Because when things get painfully real, romance won’t carry you, character will. Forever only works with someone who knows how to stay, even when it’s HARD to love.
a woman said something that really made me pause. she said the women most likely to stay in relationships that cost them everything aren’t always the ones with the lowest self-worth.
sometimes they’re the ones with the greatest capacity for hope, they don’t stay because they can’t see the truth.
they stay because they can see the possibility.
they see who someone could become, and they keep loving that version long after reality has shown them something different.
I don't think you love someone if you constantly set them up to be embarrassed or humiliated. It's almost like you're doing it on purpose to hurt them.
Women, please stop ignoring early signs of unkindness. A man who is comfortable being rude, dismissive, impatient, or inconsiderate in the beginning usually doesn’t get better with time. Leave early.