why xiaojun isn't fond of the idea of birthday gatherings
'to me, a birthday gathering is almost like people doing you a favour to accompany you to celebrate your birthday. firstly i don’t need company for the celebration, secondly i feel like we can't truly have fun because there is a motive behind the gathering which is to celebrate My birthday. i don't want it to be that, i want us to just meet without motives and enjoy our time together.
it’s also weird to suddenly contact friends you don’t even contact regularly to invite them over for a celebration. and as for my members… we literally meet everyday 🤣 even tomorrow we’re meeting to eat and chat happily at the hotel. i don’t need them to specifically celebrate for me on this day.
and to be honest i get really happy with just a simple happy birthday text you know? now people can even send gifts online! i also see lots of the fans birthday events for me and i am so grateful for that'