Someone once said, "Next time you feel nervous about stepping outside your comfortzone, remind yourself "I feel fear because it's new, not because I can't do it.
And I felt that.
No one talks about how painful it is to never be someone's "I just know what they would want" person. Like yes, you are strong, you are helpful, you are there. But does anyone know your favorite meal when you are sad? Does anyone play your favorite song when you walk in? Has anyone ever brought you something just because it reminded them of you? I hope that changes. I hope you get someone who just remembers, without being reminded. Someone who sees you in the smallest things, because the smallest things are actually everything.
-MERYAM J.
never understood the concept of keeping it in bc you don’t wanna embarrass yourself or bc they dont care. there is so much power in verbalizing your thoughts and feelings and the only person that benefits from ur silence is them. say what you want, their reaction is not the point