My general rule for feeling mentally well is understanding that the more I judge others negatively, the more I anticipate negative judgement from others. Practicing kindness and leniency and forgiveness has no guarantee of reciprocation, but it puts you in a better state of mind.
Sepakat! Kedewasaan emosional bukan diukur dari seberapa besar kita menguasai hidup pasangan, melainkan seberapa tenang kita menghadapi kenyataan bahwa orang yang kita cintai tetaplah manusia yang utuh dengan pikirannya sendiri, relasinya sendiri, dan ruang pribadinya sendiri.
mad respect buat ciwi ciwi yang kalo naik gunung/backpackeran MASIH BISA DANDANN like gIIIRRLLL??? bagi energinya plis bc i AM easily overwhelmed by the whole trip dan jadinyah makeup seadanya dan SEMAMPUNYA AJAH 😭
Trying to switch careers when you're basically ancient in the Indonesian entry-level age limit is challenging, but I'm glad I'm starting over even if the world is against it because I started late.