You’re arguing about who to blame, I wasn’t.
My point is simple: neglect your deen, and any fitnah will take you apart.
Feminism didn't break these homes. It walked into homes that were already empty of Islam.
"Fitan will be presented to hearts like a woven mat, strand by strand. Any heart that absorbs them gets a black mark, and any heart that rejects them gets a white mark" (Muslim 144).
A heart full of the deen rejects the fitnah. An empty one absorbs it.
Feminism is just the fitnah that found the door open.
Everyone blames feminism for the decay of our women's morals. You're wrong.
Feminism is one of the causes, yes. But your problem was never abandoning gender roles.
It was abandoning Islam.
You belittled Allah's ﷻ religion for years, then wondered why His mercy left your home.
Muslims told you not to send your daughters to mixed schools. You called them extremists.
They told you not to let your women post themselves online. You called them perverts.
They told you a woman's place is her home, as Allah ﷻ said (33:33). You told them to stop living in the Middle Ages.
They told you to marry your children young. You called them paedophiles.
They told you to have gheerah over your women with doctors, handymen and teachers. You called them insecure and controlling.
They told you not to let her travel without a mahram. You called it oppression.
They told you to keep music and free mixing out of your weddings. You called them killjoys.
They told you to learn your deen as a father and a man. You said you'd "just do your bit."
Year after year you let Shaytan whisper until the religion was diluted to nothing but Ramadan Samosas and a headscarf.
You turned your back on tawheed, fiqh and iman, the manual for life itself, and not in one day.
You and your fathers did this to yourselves, slowly.
Feminism is the rain you're complaining about while you drown.
You've taken one line and made it your whole argument.
I'm the last person to say "blame the men."
My point is simple: Allah ﷻ will question the father and the husband about their womenfolk.
"Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you will be asked about his flock" (Bukhari 893).
"O you who believe, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire" (66:6).
Look around you. From America to Saudi.
Fathers are pushing their daughters towards degrees and careers instead of raising them to be wives and mothers.
Men who neglect the order Allah ﷻ set for their own homes, then act shocked when their daughters become feminists without even knowing the word.
And your hadith (Muslim 2738) proves my point, not yours.
Women being fewer in Jannah is exactly why the man responsible for them will be asked what he did to protect them.
Being responsible for her doesn't excuse her. It makes you accountable as well.
I promise you brother I am the last person to show even 1% of understanding for a “Muslimah” with a feminist mindset.
You need to understand one thing as a Muslim:
some people only learn through reasoning, and some only through force.
The feminist who was brainwashed can be corrected, if she's fair and will reason.
The feminist programmed to hate men, who twists the truth to fit her desires, only responds to force.
The secular "Muslim" scarred by extremists can be reformed, if he's willing to reason fairly.
The secular "Muslim" who hates Islam deep down and is stubborn in it only responds to force.
The liberal Muslim misled by false scholars, who truly wants the truth, can be reformed.
The liberal "Muslim" who believes Allah's laws are barbaric only responds to force.
Gentleness for the one seeking the truth. Force for the one at war with it.
One of the most subtle signs of a munafiq:
he gives the benefit of the doubt to the one who sins openly,
but has only suspicion for the practising Muslim.
He sees a woman in full tabarruj moving mad online,
or a man flaunting his haram,
and says: "Don't judge, they could be struggling." "You don't know their heart."
But when a practising Muslim slips up once:
"Look at the hypocrite, always preaching."
Open sinner sins = "It's between him and his Lord 🤲"
Practising Muslim sins = "Look at this munafiq."
Btw this is a sign of the Munafiqoon, they feel discomfort when a Muslim enjoins good and forbids evil but don’t bat an eye lid when someone enjoins evil and forbids good.
Liberal "Muslims" want you to have gheerah when someone wrongs a Muslim sister.
But have gheerah over her tabarruj, her free mixing, or her posting herself online, and suddenly you're a “extremist" and "backwards."
The Prophet ﷺ said Allah has gheerah, and His gheerah is that a believer does what He forbade (Bukhari & Muslim).
Gheerah that only appears after the harm isn't gheerah. It's a reaction.
Real gheerah protects her before the harm happens.
Liberal "Muslims" want you to have gheerah when someone wrongs a Muslim sister.
But have gheerah over her tabarruj, her free mixing, or her posting herself online, and suddenly you're a “extremist" and "backwards."
The Prophet ﷺ said Allah has gheerah, and His gheerah is that a believer does what He forbade (Bukhari & Muslim).
Gheerah that only appears after the harm isn't gheerah. It's a reaction.
Real gheerah protects her before the harm happens.
قال الشيخ ابن باز رحمه الله
لو سكت أهل الحق عن بيان الحق لاستمر المخطئون على أخطائهم وقلدهم غيرهم في ذلك وباء الساكتون بإثم الكتمان
مجموع فتاوى الشيخ ۳ / ۷۲
يقول العلامة الشيخ ابن عثيمين رحمه الله : "
زاحموا أهل الباطل في الإنترنت حتى يتبين الحق
She lost her virginity when she was 12.
And in 9 years she has slept with 40 men.
and they call Muslims perverted and sexualised when we marry our daughters young.
Allah ﷻ gave a solution to natural sexual desire of your womenfolk, marry them young instead of them whoring behind your back.
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The interesting thing about feminists is that they’re considered the pinnacle of female thought.
Then you read their assertions and realise that they’re truly deficient in rationale.
This is why I tell anyone I know, you are the bigger fool if you argue with women, never mind a feminist.
How do you expect to have a logical and rationale argument with the one who doesn’t work with logic and rationale. 0 reasoning.
I don’t know what’s funnier the fact that they equate freedom to women being naked whores and men having sex with men or the fact that some ‘Muslims’ actually believe in this.
This argument only works if you accept that boys and girls are the same. We don't.
"And the male is not like the female" (3:36).
Islam doesn't sugarcoat it: Allah gave women a beauty that is to be covered.
So training a girl to cover is training her for what Allah will require of her.
Calling that "robbing her childhood" is your premise talking, not the Sharia.
And Islam trains children before the obligation:
"Command your children to pray at seven, and discipline them for it at ten" (Abu Dawud, sahih).
Salah isn't obligatory at seven. They're trained anyway, so it's natural by the time it is.
The Sahabah made their children fast and gave them wool toys to keep them busy until iftar (Bukhari).
That's training in worship, and their childhood was kept too.
Your "6-year-old son working" comparison backfires as well. Boys were trained for their role:
The Prophet ﷺ himself herded sheep as a boy (Bukhari).
Anas served the Prophet ﷺ from the age of about ten.
Ibn 'Umar presented himself to fight at fourteen.
So yes: we raise sons toward responsibility, and we raise daughters toward modesty.
Each is trained for what Allah will ask of them.
Training your child for the deen isn't robbing their childhood. Raising them without it is what robs them.
! Like Shayk Bin Baz May Allah ﷻ have mercy on his soul said : our women will not work and you will never see their faces 😃 !
اللي بيقولك أحجب بنتي وهي طفلة أو هنقبها علشان تتعود على الحجاب وتتبقى بنت عفيفة
قوله طيب بنفس المنطق تقبل تشغل ابنك الي عنده ست سنين علشان يتعود على العمل ويطلع رجل يتحمل المسؤولية
ليه قابل تحرم بنتك من طفولتها ومش قابل تحرم ابنك من طفولته؟