A Korean Feminist said:
“I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh & blood must not become a blade and turn against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me I will not let that world exist.”
That child is the perfect example.
if you wanna be happy you literally cannot cannot cannot cannottttttt care what people think… like you have to practice that daily.. and stay grounded in that. long as you not hurting or hindering nobody do what you want & be unapologetic about it… daily.