I can’t accept nobody saying hurtful shit to me out of rage at this point in my life. Speaking down on me or bringing back up a situation that was vulnerable for me or throwing anything up to use against me that I confided in you That’s the quickest way for me to act like a mf dead .
I’m comfortable where I’m at , can’t nobody joke nor try to be funny about nun I deal with or go through … I’m authentic as hell , God got me and I never cared what nb gotta say , and if you gotta knock me down to make yourself feel better , by all means God bless you
People be saying they don’t want yes men around them, but then can’t handle it when someone’s giving them the slightest bit of insight or criticism. Sometimes things you need to hear will hurt you first before they can make you better.
until it happens to you, you will think you are very careful, very responsible, very smart, very disciplined, very religious, very mature, very private, very etc...
The most toxic rule in a dysfunctional family is that the person who causes the mess gets protected, while the person who points out the mess gets treated like a traitor.