It’s NOT co parenting when it’s 7 days a week 24 hours in a day . And you don’t see your child half of that time . It’s an assistant a bitch in the way not a parent FAR from that .
LMFAO I would hate to be a deadbeat parent how do you even pull yourself to say “Damn I haven’t seen you in 2 months I’m sorry” 😂 but you’ve been carrying your other kids around like fucking backpacks .
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..It shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..It shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.
Maturing is realizing when you’re in a relationship with someone who wants to grow with you, they will always bring up issues that don’t sit right with them to your attention.
It isn’t a personal attack; it is a sign that they value the relationship and want to make it work.
My therapist once explained that the reason you zone out in a towel after a shower, sit in your car long after parking, or mindlessly scroll at night isn't because you're lazy or unmotivated. It's because your nervous system is stuck in a functional freeze state. You can still work. You can still show up. You can still get things done. But it takes every ounce of your energy. That's why you feel chronically exhausted. Why do you space out so easily? Why can you be social and fine all day and then ignore every message once you get home. This isn't a personality flaw. It's a body that has been surviving for too long.
Girl to girl —normalize saying "this isn't how I want to be loved for the rest of my life" & move on. You're literally someone's dream girl. Don't settle