I take EVERYTHING as a sign frm God in life. An small inconvenience. Like maybe I didn't need to go to this place, maybe I don't need this person in my life, that job may not be for me, maybe this is saving me from something only GOD can see. No loses forever lessons.
incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
Woman are reciprocators. Not initiators. You lead, she follow. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirror it. That's the only
Way it works.
I don't care how long we've been friends, if I feel like you're weird when it comes to me I will cut you off! Time means nothing. I have high standards when it comes to anyone who is around me. I show up and show out, I never lack effort in anything when it comes to a friendship or any relationship. I expect the same energy or you don't qualify to be in my life.
i don't think people understand.. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take!!!!!!
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
At this point in my life, it doesn’t matter how much I love you, how long I’ve known you, how much we’ve experienced together. If I feel a way about your actions, I’m gracefully removing myself from your life. I can’t change anyone and I don’t want to.