My red flag is that if you don't talk to me, I won't talk to you either. But not because I don't want to talk to you, but because I think if you don't want to talk to me, I should give you space so I don't bother you
Men arenโt confusedโฆ they know exactly what theyโre doing. They know when theyโre inconsistent, when theyโre giving the bare minimum, and when theyโre playing games. They just hope you like them enough to accept the BULLSHIT