The only reason a woman should not give you money should be because she does not have it. But if she has it, it’s her duty to give you money as long as the relationship keeps moving. I wonder how your woman will say she loves you without having the urge to gift you money.
EXACTLY what happened to our fathers that were ‘sole providers’, married to full house wives
At some point you just start seeing your supposed ‘better half’ as nothing more than a liability
I forbid ‘full housewife-izm’ for myself and those that care to live long.
I have outgrown the age where a woman uses her body to lure me to be her man. If you don't have a good business running, or a first class job doing, you can't have me. After that your body, what next?
Becoming a man is realizing we aren’t really loved. We provide something and get love in return for it. Once we start lacking a lil, it’s the end of the story.
Again. I'll repeat. The whole point of relationship is to GIVE love and to RECEIVE love. The whole point of marriage is to do life together.
You can pay for sex. You can't pay for love.
If you have to pay someone to be with you, it is not love. It is transaction, and you would be getting lesser value than the person paying for sex.
-My money is my money. His money is our money.
- I want a man withba provider fetish.
- It is a man's duty to provide. As a woman, I'll contribute my little when I want.
- No dey chook eye for woman money.
- A woman will disrespect you if you ask her to carry financial responsibility
- Unless he doesn't love you, a man that loves you want to provide for you. He doesn't need your money.
It is better to be single or to marry an actual road side mad woman, than any woman with this belief. At least, the mad woman is actually mad. The ones above are choosing to be mad and deliberately obtuse. All of them are openly or covertly telling you that money is more important than their relationship with you. Nobody is more dangerous than a person like that.
If any of the points confuses you, I'll explain.
One of my friends said, "you have interesting view about marriage. But we know you to be a generous person. You don't even know how to be unkind. All this one you are forming that your woman will invest her money in the home, we know she will enjoy your money. Your guys and people you don't even know are enjoying your kindness. Haba!"
I just smiled and explained to him. I'll write down what I told him.
You are looking at it monetarily. It is not about money. I don't have any attachment to money. The only reason I want to be rich is to expand my reach of kindness. If I'm always kind to strangers and friends, then you should know my partner is enjoying my money too. But it is not about money, it is about commitment. Whether I need her money or not, is irrelevant. Her money must be invested in the home the way mine is invested in the home. I'll eat her money the way she is eating my money. The point is, where your money is, that is where your heart is. You cannot buy love and commitment by footing all the bills. Someone who isn't giving to you habitually, is not in love with you. It is not a male attribute to give, it is a love attribute. Odogwu is not a flex. The whole point of marriage, is to do life together.
Everything I have belongs to her and the kids. If she doesn't know that, it is disappointing. Remember the story of the prodigal son? The one that stayed with the father was angry the father forgave the prodigal son because he didnt know that everything the father had, belonged to him.
Cheers to all married women and mothers who have to yield to their "Clarion calls" by 1am, 2am, 3am, 4am.
And they still have to be awake by 5:30am to make sure the kids are ready for school and that they have eaten.
And the husbands are busy snoring.
You're the MVPs.
End.
Aside men who just wanna have fun with more than enough women, we also have alots of men that started cheating because their women start denying them of sex .