not gonna lie, the whole โyouโre only butch if you like femmes, youโre only femme if you like butchesโ thing really sounds like.......and I hate to say it............but I donโt see how I can avoid it.........
....imitating heterosexuality...
yโall sound like my fAtHeR
@hugaterf yeah, men who want their abusive leanings to be validated, their bouts of rage to be ~understood~, all while they donโt have to change a damn thing except that they can expect you to give them credit for going to therapy
@ash_grey_skies me when i dress masculine: *crickets*
me when i put on makeup: omg you look SO GOOD!!!!!
me when I wear a bandana and skirt: haha you look amish
me when i put on brutal black metal corpsepaint and hide behind a corner: *banshee shrieking*
the fact that the vast, vast, vast majority of non-mask-wearers I see on a regular basis are M E N, but the idea we all have of the average entitled non-mask-wearer is "karen", just goes to show that we hold men and women to completely different standards
Before we teach consent yโall need to unlearn entitlement. The problem isnโt just figuring out when someone says yes, but confronting why you feel entitled to that yes in the first place.
@EllePalmer1 People donโt realize how isolating it is to be a gnc teen girl and watch all your female friends grow into these feminine, straight pretty women while you are left feeling so different, rarely seeing anyone like you in real life or the media.