it’s very wild to me that pwBPD are essentially asking for all of their friends and loved ones to cater to their meltdowns at the drop of a hat considering across the country and the world mental health is getting worse for everyone, people have less resources
The popularization of therapy speak has done enormous collective social damage. Yes, the meltdowns of people with BPD are manipulative, in the same way that it's manipulative to scream for help when you're in danger, or for a person with cancer to post a gofundme. Any attempt
@diagnosoid I understand that but how are you to measure the level of someone else’s tolerance for your unwellness in the first place. if someone steps back and “neglects” a pwbpd after they split the first time, is this neglect and abandonment or is it recognizing their own tolerance?
@Giganv2 and i’ve watched you fight losing twitter battle for over 24 hours and you’re still just as misunderstood and miserable and alone as when you first started replying to people. hope this made you feel better xx
into them and you not only get nothing back, you get treated worse. sorry life is too short and too shitty to keep playing doctor for people that are wildly unstable and will objectively make your life worse. the only good answer is the answer that makes your life easier
queers get on here every single day critiquing heterosexuals and their fraught and patriarchy driven relationship dynamics but you think you’re exempt from this critique on account of being a dyke #howthatwork