Current Doctors please give me advice, motivation, strategies or ideas on how I get accepted into med school and how I get into the profession of interest!!
The n-word is so taboo among white people that it would have probably fallen out of the English language entirely if black people hadnโt kept it alive in their music and everyday speech.
God watched you be quiet when you should've spoken. He watched you say Yes when your heart was screaming no. He saw how much it cost you just to keep the peace. But now it's time for a different kind of peace. Not the kind that keeps you silent. The kind that sets you free. Its time for boundaries. Spiritual ones. Emotional ones. Even relational ones. You have nothing to prove. You're not here to audition. Your here to fulfill something holy. And that can't happen if you're constantly explaining your worth to those who are blind to it. Stop giving front row seats in your life to people who only show up to criticize the performance. This next version of you is not for spectators. It's for warriors. It's for architects. It's for people who pray in silence and show up in storms and those people are coming.
I know this has been said a million times in a million different ways, but it genuinely is so FUCKING insane that we are now fully aware our government is filled with child trafficker murderer rapist pedophiles and we all just wake up in the morning and go to work and pay our bills and are filing our taxes to pay a government full of fucking child trafficker murder rapist pedophiles. Every day I feel like Iโm inching closer to a full manic episode and Iโm not being dramatic or funny this shit is not okay or normal what the fuck are we even doing anymore bro
The Bible is so clear on how important it is to never LOOK BACK. Not at an old position, an old ex, an old friendship, or even old ways that God has brought you out of. There are many people in the Bible but in clear words, God tells us to "remember Lot's wife"; who turned into a pillar of salt! Stuck in time. I pray that when you're tempted to "go back", He reminds you that you have so much to look forward to.
You see those 3am deep conversations you have cuddled up?
Talking about everything, from how many kids you want in future, to the reason why you fought the last time and pointing out where you can both do better.
Reassuring each other that it is both of you against the world, no matter the odds?
No feeling in this world comes closer.
i don't know who needs to hear this but in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending youโre innocent in the story you created
i really do believe when you have a special relationship with God, he creates a shield of protection. like, some people really don't see you. You think you're being ignored, outcasted, but God's veil don't allow Satan's agents to even see you. so when you're overlooked, getting the least attention, thank God, because that's his protection.๏ฟผ
I Literally cried when my therapist said:
โToxic family members rarely apologize. They would rather carry their denial to the grave than face the damage they've caused. In their minds, the pain they created was somehow your fault.โ
Sometimes healing means accepting the apology you'll never get.
Realizing that you are not compatible with someone (because they donโt meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Look how much youโve grown.