@theeALPHAMAN @maryjaneexplore Post regularly that you are on the market , DM HR managers Marketting yourself , you basically become a nag on that app, join platforms that are in the career space you desire E.g BA group, Law etc… just need to always engage on LinkedIn and not go mute . That’s what I did
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
The Polygamist is based on a novel by the talented Sue Nyathi. She is Zimbabwean and has lived in SA for years now. I encourage everyone to read her second novel: The Golddiggers. It's about Zim migrant lives in the City of Gold, Joburg. It will teach you empathy & understanding
Gents.. prioritize your mental health! Speak up, take up a hobby, go to therapy, surround yourself with positive like minded people, don’t be afraid to be alone, reduce your alcohol intake and try to eat well. It’s the little things that build up and make an impact! 🙏🏿
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
.flirt, interest in each other's hobbies, playfulness, travelling together, cooking for each other, attending events of mutual interests, travelling together, theatre & art show dates in winter, pillow gossiping, hotel escapes, random drunk escapades, and travelling together ❤️