You really do stay blessed when you move with a pure heart. Help people, look out for people, and put people in winning situations when you can. God sees all of it. You will stay blessed that way; life already hard enough. You have to be a blessing to receive one.
you must believe you are special and then go so hard, for so long, with such violent refusal to accept any other ending, that reality itself starts running out of ways to tell you no. you must wage a war daily against the ordinary outcome, until the belief you invented out of nothing in a room by yourself has been hammered into the world so many times that it stops being a claim and becomes reality.