It’s okay to be an academic who’s disappointed by academia.
It’s okay to be disappointed that some academics sold their souls to advance and were rewarded for it.
It’s okay to be disappointed that you were not given space to thrive and be all that you could be in academia.
True. A man gets a housekeeper, chef, childcare provider, event coordinator, home decorator, and sex worker, all for the bargain basement price of room and board - and now they want women to go 50/50 on that and have side hustles, too 🤣 Absolutely not.
Never, and I mean EVER, yoke yourself to a man or procreate with one who is not providing you with a much softer life than you'd live without him.
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
One of the most overlooked forms of wealth is having complete ownership of your time.
Waking up and knowing nothing about your day will be decided by someone else is priceless.
Hey ladies!!! Please don’t give us anymore advice on how to keep a man… We wanna know how to make 100k every month. Those are the secrets we wanna know!!!