bts will never be the villains y'all are so desperately trying to paint them as twist the story all you want they still won't become the bad guys you want them to be.
Some people in this fandom desperately need a reality check when it comes to BTS. They are artists, not your therapists, nor are they flawless figures designed to live up to your personal moral standards 24/7. Parasocial relationships have gotten so out of hand that a simple-
FORCING you to listen to BTS's music. If seeing them act like regular, complex human beings triggers you this much, you are free to unstan and step away. Stop treating them like moral dolls you can control, and start respecting them as actual humans who deserve the same freedom-
event attendance causes meltdowns, as if these seven men exist solely to carry your emotional expectations. Liking an artist’s music or going to a show in their private time doesn't mean they endorse everything that artist has ever done, and at the end of the day, nobody is-
Maybe I get a lot of backlash by saying this. But for me this isn’t a topic of black and white. Yes, I am a woman and yes I absolutely hate CB for everything he stands and does. And yes the BTS audience is mostly female. BUT I think the problem lays more deeper. Most fans put BTS on a pedestal and put their own expectations, hopes, wishes, point of views on them and often forget, that they are also humans as all of us. They enjoyed CB‘s music in their private time. Does this mean they share his attitude toward women - NO. Does this mean they changed what they stand for - NO.
I wish this fandom would grant them exactly the same freedom as private individuals that each of us takes for granted for ourselves. Make mistakes, enjoying things that go against other beliefs, sometimes doing something spontaneous without thinking about how it might turn out.