@be_like_ice the time delay is real.. everyone expects a meltdown right away. but your brain is still building a flowchart for a feeling it doesnt have a category for. then it hits you months later. out of nowhere
@upshine3 being encouraged to ask questions if you don’t know how to do something but 90% of the things are assumed to be “general knowledge” so when you ask about them you get looked at like you’re 4 years old or stupid or both
Women are out here sharing live locations, checking the backseats of cars, and holding their hands over their drinks. Men are doing 3 hour podcasts about how unfair it is that we don't smile at them. The disconnect is fatal.
It’s sad that during your formative years, your exposure to the world is largely limited by your parent’s own exposure. If they value things like music lessons, spelling bees, sports, or exploring random hobbies, you benefit from that. If not, it’s just chores and TV for you.