People that I’m jealous of:
- ppl that live in madinah
- hafizah
- ppl that understand Arabic
- ppl that have a lot more (correct islamic) knowledge than me
- ppl that live in islamic environment where people don’t openly sin
- ppl w religious family
May He give us all of it
The people that take your intelligence for granted and insult it through lies and manipulation do not deserve to know the true depth of your intelligence. Do not correct them, nor inform them of the fact that you see through it all, for knowing you and having access to the real
I have learned more and more through experience that my intelligence should be reserved for the ones with the capacity to hold and match them, the others can underestimate and see me as stupid, I don’t and shouldn’t care.
The ones that play in my face and lie, manipulate and
I have learned more and more through experience that my intelligence should be reserved for the ones with the capacity to hold and match them, the others can underestimate and see me as stupid, I don’t and shouldn’t care.
The ones that play in my face and lie, manipulate and
You know, communications with most men I have known have always only ever felt like muddy water — the more I say, the muddier the water gets. The constant misunderstandings that happen because they can’t just read my words, they read in between the lines things that don’t exist,
The people that take your intelligence for granted and insult it through lies and manipulation do not deserve to know the true depth of your intelligence. Do not correct them, nor inform them of the fact that you see through it all, for knowing you and having access to the real
and that you care. All bark and no bite.
It’s dumb when women do this, but all women have their dumb and weak moments, we are human after all.
Just say nothing and walk away ok. All bite and no bark 👌🏻👌🏻 Be calm and unbothered. The only way to win is to stop playing.
The worst punishment for a man that care about you is not asking him for money, a car, a house, or anything at all. It is when you want absolutely nothing from him and nothing to do with him anymore. They are waiting, waiting for you to punish them and want something from them
As long as you are still asking something from him, you’re still there, and you still care. You still want him in your life, you are still negotiating your worth and your boundaries with his existence. All the shouting and screaming and angry demands only show that you are weak
Saya rasa Allah makbulkan doa dapat rumah yang luas ni, sebab rezeki dapat sewa bilik yang terasa luas ada balcony, tenang. Alhamdulillah terima kasih Allah 🤍
Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kami pasangan dan anak-anak yang menjadi penyejuk mata kami, rumah yang luas, jiran yang soleh dan kenderaan yang elok.
Dan jadikanlah kami penyejuk hati kepada pasangan
kami dan jiran yang soleh kepada jiran kami.
Aameeen.
You don't want them to access education, you don't want them to access healthcare and you don't even allow them to beg. But somehow, you expect them to be "cultured" like you after depriving them of everything.
Islam is perfect; this is also why we should refrain from asking for help unless necessary, bc that’s one of the only ways to preserve and protect your honour — you don’t owe anyone anything, hence they can’t control or have a say over you, or throw their good deeds in your face.
One of man's deepest desires is not to be a burden on anyone and to earn his way. Burdening others brings him shame. He aspires to self-sufficiency so he can be one that gives rather than takes. He does not pursue independence out of vanity, he covets self-reliance out of honour.
Ya Allah, lindungilah kami daripada orang-orang yang berniat jahat, dan lindungilah kami daripada tergolong dalam orang-orang yang berniat jahat, ikhlaskanlah dan bersihkanlah hati kami sentiasa. Aaameeen