If your insecure about your weight do something to change it, if your insecure about how you look do something to change it or remain confident in how you look and embrace it.
A person who entertains sb talking down on their friend, they were never your friend to begin with. They’re just an envious, jealous, insecure, bitter ass person who was secretly waiting for the perfect opportunity to tear u down. Real friends don’t participate in your downfall.
People will really have a whole love-hate OBSESSION with you. They’ll be inspired but intimidated. They’ll show you love then throw shade. Watch your every move but pretend they don’t see you. They kinda want to like you and love you but the hate and envy in their heart won’t allow it which causes an unhealthy connection. (In their head) They create fake beef, accusations and negative projections about you to feed their hatred and envy torward you and be SOOO bothered by you whole time you don’t even bother with them at all. It’s weird but sometimes that’s just life.
It really bothers people when you’re not seeking external validation or looking for acceptance by everybody. When you’re just focused on yourself & minding your own purpose, people hate that shit cause they know innately that you’re different from the majority. A lot times what causes jealousy isn’t the material shit you have because sometimes the… See more person who envies you may have a greater financial status than you. What causes them to be jealous or hating you is the energy possess & your aura that makes you glow like the sun cause your light puts a spotlight on their insecurities.
the secret to why some people are so blessed is because they give.. they support. they give their time. they give a ride. they pay for someone's food. they love on other people's kids like their own. they lend a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. always giving encouragement. they’re loyal.. and the list goes on. for those who have good hearts and you think it goes unnoticed.. GOD ALWAYS HAS YOU 🦋🩷
Every woman needs a season where nobody knows what she’s doing. Not her ex. Not her friends. Not social media. Just her, God, and the plan. Some blessings grow better in silence, and everybody don’t deserve access to the version of you that’s still being built.