as I got older I begin to want differently for a father of my child: fuck looks, fuck status, fuckhistory and fuck if he just “ like/love me “. The father has to be present, available, willing, financially stable & emotionally available. Be Able to teach, protect, & provide!
@breebxby I was just at a friend house and they was cooking fish down! 🥷🏾 had enough fish to feed two football teams juneteenth was teenthn this year ☺️☺️✨🤏🏾
♒✨Aquarius: Daily routines and physical wellness need a tune-up in the next four weeks. Focus on habits that nourish both your body and mind. Powerful energy is coming into your life now. Golden relationship opportunities bring partnerships, that elevate your world. Embrace it.
@_iamhershayyy what kills me is how people dont read to comprehend they read to comment. 🤦🏾♀️ & the comment be some personal shit 😂😂 their response always someshit they going thru lol
Habits I noticed in women who have genuinely healed
1. They stopped explaining themselves to people who had already decided who they were. They understood that clarity is not owed to everyone. Some people are not asking questions. They are building cases.
2. They have one standard they do not negotiate on. Not a list of rules. One deep knowing of what they will not accept. And that one knowing removes the exhausting daily decision of where their line is.
3. They feel the grief and they name it out loud to themselves. "I am sad today." "I am scared today." That one sentence creates just enough distance from the feeling to keep it from becoming their entire identity
4. They stopped trying to heal in the same environment that wounded them. They changed the inputs. The people. The conversations. The content they consumed. They understood that you cannot think your way out of a room you have never physically left.
5. They allowed the anger. They did not perform forgiveness before they had processed the rage. They let the anger do its sacred work of showing them what they would never allow again.