I think my biggest pet peeve is somebody playing on my intelligence.. like I'm clueless? Or like I don't be paying attention..or like I can't put two and two together.. or like I don’t be listening.. or like you can pull one over on me...
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.