as an “actual” private person, i can over confirm that people becomes very odd when they can’t figure you out or what’s truly going on in your life and beyond the surface. most importantly, normalize lying to people who ask too much about your private life. people be weird asf.
I notice this happens a lot if you’re a naturally calm person. A lot of people with unhealthy nervous systems feel provoked by calmness because of their own trauma, therefore making you a threat even when you’re not. To be “chill” to them rings “no, something must be off”
For some reason, I just feel like life is about to get so much better for me. Like I'm about to be shown why everything I went through to this point, was worth it.