If someone is truly meant for you, God won't force the timing.
He'll prepare both of you first.
And sometimes that preparation looks like distance.
Not because love is being denied, but because growth is still happening.
Staying together before healing can turn love into a cycle of repeated pain, unhealthy patterns, and losing yourself in the process.
Sometimes space is necessary so both people can mature, heal, and become who they need to be.
Some relationships begin with separation because fear, attachment, or old habits were still in control.
Before loving someone the right way, you first have to learn how to value and choose yourself. And sometimes people do find their way back to each other after they've both grown, healed, and become ready for real commitment.
But the purpose isn't sitting around waiting. The purpose is becoming better.
And if you never reconnect, it still wasn't meaningless.
That relationship revealed what needed healing, where growth was needed, and what lessons had to be learned.
Real love isn't possession.
It's peace.
It's clarity.
It's self respect.
It's being able to love without losing yourself.
Life’s too short to fake it till you make it. Just be your weird, wonderful self, scars, bad jokes, and all. The right people will stick around for the real version.
My future husband has no idea he’s about to marry a woman who’s the full package. Soft, loyal, funny, beautiful, intelligent…like sir, you really hit the lottery.