Major life hack: Don't complain, ever. Nobody likes a complainer. They drain the energy of everyone around them. It's exhausting spending time around someone who constantly complains about things outside their control. If it's within your control, go do something about it. If it's not, you're just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.
Y’all hœs be knowing wayyyyy too much bout mfs y’all swear y’all don’t like 😂 like how you got all they business, all they moves, watching everything?? Btch that ain’t “not liking somebody” that’s a whole mf obsession bookie 😭‼️ You obsessed, you watching, you lowkey wanna BE them & that’s why it irritate your soul. Ain’t no way you that invested in somebody you “don’t fw” 💀 weirdo behavior fr… go seek help or go get you a life or sum‼️
I don’t throw myself pity parties. I don’t hyperfocus on things going wrong. I don’t allow myself to feel bad for me , because what does that do? I’m solution based I get shit done. Everybody has been through something in life nobody cares about your sob story but you! And you should start caring about your success story more!!!
People will assume you’ve never been through anything because you do not have a victim personality and your trauma is not your entire personality. We grow from tribulations over here, not pity ourselves.
Being rude and nasty for no reason means you’re hurting on the inside to me. That’s all I see it as. Sometimes I feel compelled to respond to disrespect but you’re already tussling internally to begin with. Like yk what, I see why you’re mad. Stay mad alone
People think cuz you love yourself you think you’re perfect and above them. Absolutely not. I know I’m not perfect and love myself regardless. The fact you cant do the same is just a skill issue.
So many female friendships center around trauma dumping on each other, or otherwise complaining, gossiping, or talking about their newest fling. The more you rise into yourself as a woman, the smaller your circle will get for this very reason.
😩😩 same and the crazy part is now I’m realizing people don’t have negative vibes around mfs they really like… so if a mf always unhappy around you it’s for a reason!
I am mentally an entitled brat, so the whole being worthy & deserving is a default for me, not a debate. I know I deserve everything I want, I know I am capable of everything I decide I am, I know that everything is possible for me no matter how irrealistic it may look to others.