𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥

...someday, maybe?✍️

[anushka @wannabeanu]

Isn't that the whole point?🤍✨

[Shubh @kadaipaneeeer]

to all the men out there, i urge you not to debate women right now.

i see a lot of men defending that clown by saying, “it was just a joke” or “you went to a comedy show, why are you taking it seriously?”

that’s exactly the point.

women aren’t reacting to a joke, they’re reacting to the mindset behind it.

because when a man casually suggests that spending ₹370 on a date means a woman owes him something in return, it stops being comedy & starts revealing character.

that’s why so many women are angry not because they missed the joke but because they’ve met that man before.

& he didn’t stop there.

in another video, he went on to talk about intimate details. about kissing her. about trying to put his hands where they weren’t wanted. about openly objectifying her body & about being rejected.

if your first instinct is to defend it & feeling sad about him losing his job over a viral reel, maybe ask yourself why.

it is exhausting to be a woman.

not just in rural villages.

not just in small towns.

everywhere on this earth.

women spend their lives calculating risks that most of us men never even notice.

which road to take.

whether to share their live location

whether to ignore a comment or confront it.

whether the man staring at them is just staring or planning something worse.

in past one month, three of my friends shared three different stories with me & honestly i had no idea how to even console them

one had an old man masturbate in front of her while she was returning from the gym at seven in the morning.

another stepped outside her house & walked 100 metres thinking it was the blinkit guy cause she ordered something. but no it wasn’t. it was a complete stranger who asked her to help her with an address & showed her a glimpse pornography on his phone & sped away with an evil smile.

the third stepped out of the gym (same gym as mine), crossed the road and was groped by a man on a passing bike.

three women. three stories. one month.

the saddest part is that none of those stories will shock most women reading this because almost every woman has her own version.

a stranger who followed her home.

a man who stood too close.

a relative who made her uncomfortable.

a crowd that looked away.

women don’t need statistics to understand fear.

many of them have lived it.

and that’s why so many men miss the point.

yes, some women use men, reject men for money & behave badly.

but those things do not make men afraid to walk home alone at night. they do not make men stay in high alert mode 24*7. they do not make men text their friends & family that : “i reached safely.”

they do not make men rethink what they wear before stepping outside. that is the difference.

so when women are angry, stop rushing to explain why they shouldn’t be. stop using your manchild logic to make her feel more stupid for venting out.

stop treating every expression of pain like a debate competition.

stop responding with “not all men.”

women already know it is not all men.

the problem is that it is enough men.

enough men for almost every woman to have a story.

enough men for mothers to worry.

enough men for daughters to stay alert.

enough men for fear to become routine.

there is so much that we as men will never fully understand but something does not need to be personally experienced to be taken seriously.

patriarchy isn’t just a system. it is a habit.

it lives in jokes. it lives in silences.

it lives in the casual objectification of women disguised as humour.

it lives in comment sections where women are reduced to objects and cuss words for having a voice.

it lives in the laughter that follows a degrading joke about women.

most of us inherited parts of it without choosing to, but being an adult means deciding what stays and what goes.

unlearn it because one day a woman will trust you enough to feel safe around you and if she cannot feel safe with the men who claim to love her then ask yourself what exactly have we become ???

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

rail gaadi ki sawaari !!!🌻

[Astro @astrocytey]

There's zero accountability for harassment in this country. The common mentality is simply "men are like this." It's not even seen as a sin. Staring at a woman, scanning her body, creeping her out it's all normal here. They make women regret even existing and no one bats an eye.

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

have you ever read something so beautifully written that you lowkey get jealous of the author's writing skills? it's like you wish you had a way with words just like them.

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[Vibeyseagull @Vibeyseagull]

Ain't nobody in dire need to marry men who are raised by such misogynistic women lmao ... aunty can keep her son in the kernel and serve bones everyday

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@sillylittlebeet @Shikhar_2912

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@_phirleaayadil 😭maine toh tuesday se hi dekhna band kiya hua...upar se tl pe rona macha rakha hai sabne promo ka...mera toh dil baith gya hai nhi dekh ri 😔🤲

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@eeba_bake i want that one too😭

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

achha achha, ohh...aur??
aage kya hua phir??

[XeroSane @SaneXero]

#SeherHoneKoHai #Rishita was actually innocent all this time, and I'm not the only one saying this, till yesterday I also believed what I saw but one user actually gave me reality check and pushing it forward, here's why rish was actually innocent.
Try to connect the dots. +

[whimsy🦩 @s0herewegoagain]

you're the loss of my life

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

mera ho gaya iss show se ...ab nahi dekha jayega 🥰

• #seherhonekohai •

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@Shikhar_2912 aur ye extra information kyun di apne mujhe???

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@Shikhar_2912 🫩

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@Shikhar_2912 you ofc🤰

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

yeh kya hai??? 😭😭😭😭

[Mimi🥀 @Mimiedits23]

Bhai yai kiya horaha hain? 😶

#Seherhonekohai #Maher

[ViDHiii🌷 @Vidhiiiiiii20]

After the rain
everything feels softer and prettier...✨️

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@BlissfulYana 😚💜

[𝐀𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥❥ @lassi_rabri]

@_phirleaayadil Bhai sab ekdum se palti kyu maar re😭😭
Update plsssss!!!!!!!