SVSU Meerut (@Subharti_Uni) claims to be progressive under a female CEO, Dr. Shalya Raj. Yet, they just dropped this sexist notice banning girls from wearing shorts, citing "Indian culture." Is this a medical university or a jail? @NCWIndia@MinistryWCD
Women are out here sharing live locations, checking the backseats of cars, and holding their hands over their drinks. Men are doing 3 hour podcasts about how unfair it is that we don't smile at them. The disconnect is fatal.
So I receive an email that says who all were the "employee of the month" in Sept, Oct & Nov of 2025. Jab me nahi hu award ki receiver toh kyu mereko mail kar ke mera mood kharab kar rahe hai?????🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
There’s no “teen mom crisis” without asking why grown men are impregnating girls.
There’s no “gold digger epidemic” without acknowledging wealthy older men deliberately pursuing women decades younger and then acting shocked when money is part of the dynamic.
There’s no panic about “women in prostitution” without confronting the male demand and the financial vulnerability that makes exploitation profitable.
There’s no outrage about “promiscuous Gen Z girls” without acknowledging that the same internet and media landscape is sexualizing and grooming them early.
There’s no “masculinity crisis because of feminism.” There is a crisis of entitlement when men are no longer centered.
There’s no widespread “false allegation epidemic.” There is a long, documented history of sexual violence being minimized, excused, and defined by men in power.
There’s no hysteria about “mean exclusionary lesbians.” There is discomfort when women set firm sexual boundaries.
Over and over again, the spotlight is turned onto women a their behavior, sexuality, choices instead of interrogating the structures that advantage men.
It’s misogyny. It’s deflection. It’s a system that seeks to individualize women’s behavior while protecting male power.
This is so true and subtly happens so often around me at workplace that I cannot emphasis enough. And then on our female round table we are told to control our reactions. I am sorry ma'am I will not!
My sister was assisting with a pediatric surgery when the male surgeon told a crude sexual joke about the patient's parents. Room chuckled awkwardly; she stayed silent, focused on the kid.
He called her out mid-case: "Why no laugh?" She said, "I'm here for the patient, not that." He complained she "lacked team spirit" & requested she never be assigned to his OR again. So no, it's not women ruining workplaces....it's the fragile ego of men!