one of the biggest problems involved in this eating disorder discourse is the fact people moralize eating disorders and think that pointing out someone is clearly starving themselves and needs help is the same thing as bullying them and calling them mean names
it's not her fault. she has an illness and can't be expected to hold this kind of responsibility but it's so fucking upsetting and disturbing that the ariana grande stanbase has just become a pro-ana community trying to normalize eating disorders out of a desire to "defend" her
It’s so funny y’all wanna play victim so bad. What did she expect was gonna happen after flaunting her chest bones in the mv like that? Y’all thought we was gonna gag when she looks so close to death’s door?
Every outfit she wears these days always emphasize on her chest bones
this type of discourse pisses me OFF cause when are you gonna realise IT’S NO LONGER ABOUT HER WTF? it’s ab every single person that might be badly influenced by her romanticising of her boney body
SHE has the resources and money and connections to survive, us ppl DON’T
some of you are more worried about potentially traumatizing a multimillionaire pop star who has access to the highest level of care than the thousands of vulnerable kids who will and have already been affected her dangerous promotion of frailty and thinness
A lot of yall aren’t taking anorexia nervosa seriously. It is one of the most deadliest mental illness. It is also contagious.
Can some of the wording people have said be very harsh? Yes.
but it’s literally a life or death situation.
i hope y’all are aware even if she actually gets help and gets better she might still die because of the damage that is already done to her body BUT YALL KEEP ENCOURAGING HER AND TELLING HER (and us) THERE’S NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT
she’s not seeking help. that statement made a point to emphasize how much stamina she has to do shows night after night, treating the concern as body shaming rather than an actual health issue. i wouldn’t be surprised if she continues to deteriorate after stepping away
to all of arianas “fans” upset she’s taking a break u are the biggest piece of the problem.. she is clearly not ok (eternal sunshine vs petal) to note people were already concerned for her then and now she looks crazy cracked out I rlly hope she gets the help she needs so sad
as an anor3xia survivor who almost d1ed i have so much to say abt the whole 4riana thing but i'm not even gonna START bc the ari stans who won't stop going "don't comment on other people's bodies!!!111" are gonna blow up on me lol