i trust him, fully and entirely. he is always honest with me. and he trusts me fully and entirely. he would never do anything to hurt me. nor i to him. we have the best relationship.
secara biologi, ciuman is a selection mechanism
air liur kita mengandung soluble MHC. artinya ketika berciuman, otak "mencicipi" gen kekebalan tubuh pasangan
if there's something OFF pas ciuman artinya sinyal tubuh kita merespon adanya ketidakcocokan dalam gen imunitas pasangan
makanya gw bilang, justru laki yang baik sama semua orang itu yang mestinya lu cari. jangan malah yang “asshole to the world, but sweet to me”. how people love is their character, bukan karena lu spesial. them being mean to other women is blaring alarm.
A woman can type "I hate men" while being with a man because, for women, "I hate men" means "I hate rapists, potential rapists, fuckboys, and ill-mannered men." That phrase does not refer to respectable men(it's hard to find).Maybe her partner is none of those things.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.
Imo, aku agak setuju, tapi menurutku ini lebih nuanced.
High intelligence + low emotional regulation, bisa jadi tajam, sinis, impatient.
High intelligence + high emotional regulation, biasanya justru tenang, precise, dan tahu kapan harus blunt.
Tapi ada jg org merasa dirinya “smart and direct”, padahal kadang cuma underdeveloped interpersonal skill yg dibungkus intellectual superiority
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