Can we talk about the mental damage this does? The disappointment teaches you to not have expectations & to not feel those emotions of excitement out of fear of being let down, again. Your word is everything! Please stop making promises you can’t keep or don’t intend on keeping.
I dont think it's ok how one-sided friendships & relationships work. i'm tired of always being the one willing to go the extra mile for ppl I care about EVEN when im not okay, but as soon as it's me that needs someone to talk to or vent to, then everyone disappears or dont care