I’ve decided I will no longer ask the question, “What does a woman bring to the table?” Not because women should be excused from effort or responsibility in relationships, and not because a man must be the sole provider, but because of this.
On the 25th of December, 2025, I lost a friend. She had just gotten married. She became pregnant and later suffered a miscarriage. Sadly, she died during an evacuation.
She had been alive all the years she was single. She got married, got pregnant, and she died. The painful truth in this is that, She might still be alive today if she had never married or carried a pregnancy. So when we ask again what she brought to the table, the answer is simple. She brought her life.
Yes, men also lose their lives while trying to provide. Statistically, men are more likely to die at work sites than women are to die from pregnancy or childbirth.
But the bottom line here is, everyone brings something to the table, and it should never be reduced or dismissed. Sometimes it isn’t money or labor or visible sacrifice. Sometimes it is presence, risk, and sometimes it is life itself.
Relationships are not transactions. They are shared responsibilities. What matters most is that partners recognize, value, and support what each person brings, seen or unseen.
@myselfcoaching1@damnidc__ I absolutely hear my younger coworkers (male and female) talk about modern dating and feel like I caught the last chopper out of Nam.
@techevangelista @AITA_online The issue is they're not compatible. She's not a bad person for having social anxiety, and he's not a bad person for being super involved with his son.
She knew they were a package deal, and it's on her to adjust or realize they just won't work long-term.
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Lunchtime update. Solidly at 3 ravs of snow now, with light snow still falling. Storm should be wrapping up in the next few hours. Not sure what to actually eat for lunch today though... #stlwx#snowfallrav
I really hate the argument 'my body, my choice' in regards to masking and vaccination. My father-in-law died of cancer last summer, he couldn't even get palliative care due to the deluge of covid patients in hospitals.
Such a sweet mom. Her teenager is goth and she’s just happy she’s expressing herself in a safe way and usually makes pretty good decisions
This lady is my new mom goal