Doesn’t bug me if a girl calls her bf a “golden retriever.” Yea Its corny but it basically just means she feels safe around him, if you’ve had scary partners before thats important. If a guy ever self identifies as a “golden retriever bf” you need to burn him alive like The Thing
“losing/taking virginity”
- turns sex into an object
- places pressure on the decision
- you don’t actually lose or take anything ?
“sexual debut”
- exciting
- all focus is on u
- suggests a musical number is involved
I even hate the phrase “losing my virginity”. I urge women to say “my first time”, you are not losing anything here. You are experiencing something for the first time. Language matters.