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my hyperfixation changes once every week

[e @pleaseric]

La sensación de llegar a casa y finalmente poder aislarse, acostarse en la cama e ignorar a todo el mundo:

[aether @bluewdrift]

The older I get, the more I understand why people disappear into gardening baking, reading, and long walks. Not because life got boring. Because peace became valuable.

[aether @bluewdrift]

learn to be alone. eat alone, sleep alone, vibe alone, heal alone. be so confident that you can bloom without opinions and approvals. and if you ever doubt yourself, always remember who you were and how far you've come.

[B @nollywould]

you can physically feel the pain in your heart
you go to sleep with it, you wake up and you have like 3 seconds before your brain remembers you’re heartbroken and you carry it again. everyday for like 6 months

[shanika @shanikancita]

4 screenshots that made my frontal lobe develop faster (3 yrs ago)

[aether @bluewdrift]

You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.

[Cemitério Floptok @cemiscfloptok]

não uso drogas, não engravidei na adolescência, não dei trabalho quando era criança, sou um bom filho(a), estudei e tirei boas notas, e mesmo assim, enlouqueci do mesmo jeito

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

i love unscheduled happiness, the "i wasn't expecting this" type of happiness.

[Anubis @eduantao]

a sensação de cancelar algo que você não tinha vontade de fazer

[$ @jxtsummer]

you gotta learn to heal without venting to everyone

[• يمنى♡• @yumnah_elkhabir]

thissssss

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

Me pretending to be okay with a situation that's clearly affecting me

[• يمنى♡• @yumnah_elkhabir]

THISS

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.