and then i get jumpscared seeing them on someone’s ig story and get a bajillion war flashbacks, a ruined day, a dysregulated nervous system, and same-day nightmares ❤️
so cruel yet so fascinating how you'll have to literally rewire your brain after a certain event while the other person goes on to live their life completely unaffected
90% of the time i see a (usually) random east asian girl on tiktok the comments r just filled with “you look like x idol” and 85% of the time they do NAWT like guys ur idols cannot be benchmark comparisons for any asian girl pls
@wimmiebear totally get that ppl mean it to be kind! but ngl i think it’s mostly kpop stans i see who comment such things and that’s what rubs me the wrong way + most of the time the person doesn’t even look like who they’re being compared to so it kinda feels like it’s just bc they’re asian